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Touchy subject - overnight stay

PostPosted:Mon Jul 06, 2015 4:45 pm
by Puchilin
i have not brought this up before but my ex- de facto we have now
been separated living separate lives homes for the last 3 years.
He used to live by himself until 1 month ago he decides to share a 3 bedroom
apartment with two other men from his golf club who I have never met.
He says he has the biggest bedroom with an ensuite so when the little girls 6 and
4 come to stay overnight they have their privacy but that is ultimate goal is
Of course for us to make it work again as a family??? ( which in my books is not an option)
The whole situation makes me sick I don't want him in my life apart from being a good
Dad to his girls he just does not get it. I want to move on but I just don't know how to
make him understand that apart from maybe being co-parents we are broken.

Also my little ones sleeping over at his place with two men I don't know.

What is wrong with me? Why can't he just get the message
and move on.... He is toxic, depressed, needy there is no going back.

Re: Touchy subject - overnight stay

PostPosted:Thu Jul 09, 2015 9:36 am
by Mum22
Stand your ground, Those girls should have their own room - IF they are to sleep overnight at dad's.
2 men you do not know - nothing wrong with you Puchilin.