So many worries are running through my head. Who is she? Is she good enough for my girls? As he isn't a catch it worries me what she's like. It's not to say she can't be nice but if you knew him you'd wonder too.
Not one part of me cares he has moved on, The marriage was not good and I have to leave.
He quit working the day I left and therefore has paid no child support in nearly 2 years. He lives with the his parents and he has our girls 2 nights a week. I only agreed at first because his parents were there. Lots of reasons others would not of let him have them at all at the time.
I rented my own place for about 18 months but with no financial support at all for our girls I have had to move back in with my parents also. I also work and pay for 2 days childcare.
Anyway my biggest fear is, and I'm hoping someone can tell me if I need to is:
If he remarries and gets his own place will they have more chance of more custody as they will be a 2 parent family ?
And if they have a child together who will become half siblings to my 2 girls would that also mean my girls would live with them full time?
Under the circumstances I left he was
Lucky he ended up with 2 nights a week. If it went to court and I wasn't bullied into it I doubt he would have got that. But if he ever does sort himself out and gets a house / job. / possible new wife and kids. Will he get custody if I'm still single (as I don't want to repartner anytime soon) and does living with my parents affect this. (I am nearly 40) and only don't have a home because I lost everything I ever had when I got divorced.
I'm scared of Losing my Girls to another women. They are so young and it kills me to think someone else will be a mother figure to them. Especially at this age. 2 &3.
Thanks for any advice or facts that may help ease my mind.