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By Puchilin
i have not brought this up before but my ex- de facto we have now
been separated living separate lives homes for the last 3 years.
He used to live by himself until 1 month ago he decides to share a 3 bedroom
apartment with two other men from his golf club who I have never met.
He says he has the biggest bedroom with an ensuite so when the little girls 6 and
4 come to stay overnight they have their privacy but that is ultimate goal is
Of course for us to make it work again as a family??? ( which in my books is not an option)
The whole situation makes me sick I don't want him in my life apart from being a good
Dad to his girls he just does not get it. I want to move on but I just don't know how to
make him understand that apart from maybe being co-parents we are broken.

Also my little ones sleeping over at his place with two men I don't know.

What is wrong with me? Why can't he just get the message
and move on.... He is toxic, depressed, needy there is no going back.
By Mum22
Stand your ground, Those girls should have their own room - IF they are to sleep overnight at dad's.
2 men you do not know - nothing wrong with you Puchilin.